Assistant Household Manager

Work Schedule
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Full-Time, primarily Monday - Friday 9:00 AM - 5:00 PM with flexibility for evening and weekend events as needed

Start Date: ASAP

Salary Range: $135,000 - $155,000

A distinguished San Francisco-based private residence seeks an exceptional Assistant House Manager to support comprehensive household operations and provide seamless hospitality services. This dynamic role supports the Lead House Manager in maintaining the highest standards of service while creating a warm, welcoming environment that prioritizes family relationships and authentic hospitality.

The successful candidate will be a vital operational partner, working closely with the Lead House Manager to ensure flawless execution of daily household functions, staff coordination, event management, and property maintenance. This role requires exceptional adaptability, strong interpersonal skills, and the ability to pivot seamlessly between varied responsibilities while maintaining composure and professionalism. The position demands someone who can anticipate needs proactively, make sound independent decisions, and deliver five-star hospitality with genuine warmth and discretion.

We seek a mid-career professional with substantial hospitality or event management experience who thrives in fast-paced environments and demonstrates emotional intelligence when managing diverse teams. The ideal candidate values family-oriented service, possesses mature judgment, takes initiative without requiring constant oversight, and maintains clear communication channels. Experience in high-end hospitality operations, private residences, or luxury event management is essential, along with comfort managing everything from intimate weekly dinners to large-scale gatherings of up to 200 guests.

This opportunity offers the chance to make a meaningful impact on quality of life within a household that values authentic relationships, work-life balance, and the philosophy that exceptional service should feel effortless. The role is perfect for someone who believes in creating stress-free environments through proactive problem-solving, treats every guest with genuine care, and operates with the confidence to ask for forgiveness rather than permission when situations demand immediate action.

• Minimum five to seven years of progressive experience in high-end hospitality operations, luxury event management, or private residence management with demonstrated success coordinating sophisticated events and managing diverse service teams.

• Proven expertise in event planning and execution, from intimate gatherings to large-scale events accommodating 20-200 guests, with strong vendor relationship management and logistical coordination capabilities.

• Exceptional interpersonal and communication skills with the ability to build positive relationships across all household staff levels, address concerns diplomatically, and foster a collaborative, respectful work environment aligned with family values.

• Strong human resources acumen including experience with staff scheduling, performance management, problem resolution, onboarding new team members, and handling disciplinary matters with professionalism and fairness.

• Advanced proficiency in calendar management systems and digital coordination platforms, with comfort navigating technology for task delegation, project tracking, and maintaining organized operational workflows.

• Demonstrated ability to work independently with mature judgment and decision-making capabilities, taking initiative to resolve issues proactively without requiring constant direction or approval.

• High emotional intelligence with exceptional discretion and confidentiality standards, maintaining professional boundaries while creating warm, authentic connections with the Principal, family members, and guests.

• Solid understanding of property maintenance coordination including oversight of audio-visual systems, pool maintenance, landscaping services, and general household repairs, with ability to manage vendor relationships and quality control.

• Adaptability and flexibility to pivot plans quickly, accommodate changing priorities, and maintain…